Sex in the City

Have you been to the movies lately? Have you and your partner done something sexy lately? You know what; a perfect thing to do now would be to go to the movies and watch Sex in the City. I bet you that you will go home and have sex after watching this one, as it does something to us women looking at Sex in the City, and I know that the guys like it also!

So get out, watch the great movie, and go home and have some great sex ;)

Judy

Six reasons to have Sex!

1. Our mental and emotional health balance is clearly influenced by sex. Abstinence is known to cause from anxiety to paranoia and depression… In fact, in case of light depressions, after having sex the brain releases endorphins, that decrease stress, inducing a state of euphoria.

2. Sex can be a beauty treatment. While having sex, a woman’s body doubles the estrogen level, and this makes her hair shine and the skin becomes softer.

3. A 10-year research carried on 1,000 middle-aged men at Queens University in Belfast, Ireland, showed that sex on a regular basis increases the humans’ lifespan. For the same age and health, those who had orgasms more frequently had half the death rate of men who did not have such frequent orgasms. This could be due to the plummeting stress hormones, reaction that installs after we have sex.

3. Sweating while having sex cleanse the skin pores, making the skin brighter and decreasing the risk of developing dermatitis.

4. Sex can make us lose weight. You burn all that fat and carbohydrates from the romantic dinner. Quickies of 20 minutes weekly mean 7 500 calories annually, that’s as much as you consume on 120 km (745 mi) of jogging. A sex session can burn about 200 calories. This is like running 15 minutes on a treadmill!

5. Sex strengthen our muscles. You can imagine the effort made by your muscles through those pushes and flexions. It depends on your stunts in bed, of course. And it’s clearly a lot more fun than running for miles.

6. The more active your sex life is, the more attractive for the opposite sex you are. High sexual activity makes the body release more pheromones, chemicals that attract the opposite sex.

Inflatable hot seat, great sex toy!

This is a great sex toy! Benny went away on a trip a couple weeks back and I had this one, fresh and untried in my closet. I sliped it out and gave it a ride..

Once inflated and turned on, the hot seat can become your ride into the sunset. The 6" vibrating dong offers different vibrations thanks to the handy attached remote.

You can straddle the machine and ride the hot seat till you reach a sexual peak. Once a desired vibration speed is found, the user can put the remote down and grab onto the E-Z grip handles. Then they can go cowgirl on the seat without any worry. When they're done they can easily deflate the seat and store it away for next use.

Specifications:
The hot seat is easily inflatable (we recommend the air pump for use -- see related items below). The device is made of a comfortable vinyl material that holds up to 300lbs. A mask is included to offer new sensations. The control requires 2 AA (batteries) not included.

Click on the image to go to our shop and read more before you buy it :)

Finger sex with a woman

When a woman masturbates, she often rests her wrist on her lower abdomen just above the pubic bone. If this is what your partner does, try to do the same, since it will influence the way your fingers feel on her vulva. Try lying parallel to your partner and reaching your arm over her body until your fingers can reach her crotch. This allows your fingers to approach from the same angle that her own fingers do.

Great lovers know to start with light, gentle caresses that barely touch the inner thighs and pubic hair. Don't go any further until she spreads her legs and/or her pelvis begins to arch upward. Then tease and caress until the lips of her vulva invite your fingers inside.

Men typically use only one finger when they get down around the action zone. When your lover does herself, however, she gets her entire wrist into the motion, even if only one finger is actually touching her vulva. This is a subtle and important detail that the great ones all know.

Benny

Sexy body paint

This is an easy and fun way to have sex.. Use your fingers to paint on your partner! This will lead you to intimate sex for sure!



(Just click on our web shop icon in the menu, and search for ' Paint ', and you will find this cheap and fun kit!)

Playing with sex through role play (sex toys and lingerie are allowed!)

Everyone has one or multiple sex fantasies, but very few actually have the guts to make them come to life. Benny and I have tried role playing. The first couple times it was a bit, how do I say it, different or strange, but at the same time very exiting. Now we love to use role play as part of our sex games. Here are some recommendations from us to you:

Start easy..

Start talking dirty, talk about your fantasy

Think it through, some roles requires plannig and sex toys

If you want your partner to be a slutty character, with sex toys and sexy outfit, then you might need to plan a little bit before you start...




















Brainstorm about fantasy sexual role play: get your creative juices flowing.Consider the following elements of any sex role play scenario:

1) Who do you want to be?
2) What’s the scenario?
3) How can you dress it up?
4) What’s your motivation?
5) What (and where) are the boundaries and the ground rules?

What are the boundaries? Set ground rules for fantasy sexual role play

Just because you go into a role, does not mean that you and your partner does no longer have any boundaries. Agree up front on how far you are willing to go.. but it is always allowed to stretch it a little bit...

Practice makes perfect. Use masturbation to explore fantasy sexual role play.

When we think of fantasy sexual role playing we usually imagine it involves at least two people. But masturbation offers some of the most fertile ground for developing sexual fantasy scenes. When we’re masturbating we are less likely to censor our thoughts and feelings.

You will find several outfits / lingeries in our shop (link on right side). Our experience is that it is easier to fit into a new role, if you look like the role you are going to be. Sexual clothing is an easy way of slipping into your new role. Stack up with some sex tools, and have fun!

Judy

FleshLight, hand held pussy!

Okay, just like me you might have tried these type of prodcuts? I have gotten disapointed more then ten times.. I ended up with the thought "Okay, when it is just me, there is nothing like a good hand job".

Well; that changed! This toy is a fantastic gift to men. It almost feel like the real thing, and it is also a toy that you can use with your partner. This is a MUST try guys!!

This is the FIRST product on our page that I give my 100% satisfaction guarntee! You will love this product, and your partner will love to play with you; with this "pussy" also...

Click on the image and read more (and order it, you will love this toy!!)




Benny :)

Our latest test of a sex toy.. "Wireless Egg Massager"

Wow! This was great for Judy, and fun for the both of us. This thing is totally hidden, and the remote controll is also pretty small so we could even play a bit in public... ''

This is what we did this Memorial week end.. We went on a pick nick, and found a spot without to many people around. We brought some sex toys, and had fun. But then Benny pulls out a present... Hmm.. wonder what it can be? It turns out to be a Wireless Egg Massager that he ordered from Amazon. We put some lube on it, and slipped it into Judy.. Benny had the remote, and he teased Judy until she actually came!

We went out to eat the same evening, and we put the egg back in. Benny was hitten the remote during the taxi drive (it got pretty funny..for Benny), then in the resturant Benny was hitting the remote from time to time..

It was fun, and when we got home Judy was so wired up that she gave Benny the longeste blow job ever..



Judy and Benny

We just love foreplay :-)

Foreplay is very fun, we simply love it. This is when you can tease your partner, and drive him / her nuts!



Some tips from us to you...



Card Games
Take a deck of poker cards and assign a naughty and erotic sexual act to each of the number. For example, you can have a slow stripping dance assigned to the Number 5 of the cards. This is a very simple game which you can play with your lover and enjoy a night of sensual fun.


Simple Bet
To play this game, you will need to switch on the TV and hope there is a basketball game on. You and your lover will then choose a team each to support and bet for sexual pleasure. For example, if the team that you support gets the lead after the 1st quarter of the game, you will earn yourself a good blowjob during the commercial break. Make it a point to have sex only after the entire game. I can bet that you and your lover will be praying for the game to be abandoned!


Horny Scavenger Hunt

Start off by hiding your sex toy in different areas of your house. Give your lover clues to look for them and to add some fun into the game, you might want to strip a piece of clothing each time he or she finds that you have hidden.

Play with fruit...

Well, we said we are playing did we not? One thing that is fun to do is to include food as sex toys.

Have you ever tried this?


- Put an egg up your pussy, and squeeze it out (without breaking it?)

- Use a banana as a dildo, and taking the skin of and let your man eat his best banana split ever?

- Peal an orange, insert the parts of the orange in your pussy and allow your man to get fresh orange juice?

- Have you ever made a pussy out of a water melon? I bet you will come within 8 min!

Play with food and sex, send us your comments!!

Judy and Benny

Sex in your car?

This is what get Benny really exited.. I guess because it is not on the "things you should do in traffice" list :)


We have a big and spacy SUV, and most of this is hard to do in my car..before I flip the roof open :)


Dashboard Confession

This car sex position is great if you have bucket seats! The dashboard confession looks just like that…a confession. You (him) are sitting upright in the passenger seat and your girl is sitting on your lap and posed in a forward position with her hand on the alter….uh I mean dashboard.
She will use her hands to push and grind religiously on your lap while dusting off the dash with her sweaty palms. You (him) will place your hands on her waist or hips and help her with taking you to the "higher power" of orgasm, occasionally lifting her bottom off your staff of joy.
The downside to this position is that it has the highest "BUSTED" factor of any position. Because you are both facing the same way you can't se others, like cops, come up behind you and surprise you. And, because you are both in the same seat of an empty car that is not moving you are inviting onlookers and voyeurs to watch your girl receive her pleasure penance.


Back Seat Driver

You knew this one was coming! The backseat (if you have one) is the ultimate place to be the Road Warrior. Lean the other seats forward so you have moving space, leg room and a place to hide.

The upside to the backseat is you can sit up and/or lay flat to get it on with YOUR stick shift being the only one in the way. You can lie down and hide if you hear a noise or want to pass out from flooding the engine. Plus, I learned the hard way it is better to get sweat and body fluids on the back seat then the front.


The Grand Prix

Car sex is not always the most satisfying but it is definitely fun, exciting and adventurous. I highly encourage you to try a new "road map" the next time you and your girl are out and about.
Whether you go out to dinner or on a road trip you will never look at your car the same way again. So the next time you go to dinner, take a detour on the way home. Pull into a parking lot and have some fun. If you see a truck with a blond head bobbing, then find another parking lot break in your driving skills, this track is not big enough for the both of us.

PS... Bring a towel for the pit crew, and if you know there are many "Troopoers" in your area.. watch out :)

Sucking a mans cock, seven simple steps...

One...

Pull his cock out and see how it stands. If it's straight up, you'redoing great, otherwise, here's what to do: Pull his balls out. If thepants are too tight, pull them down. Now hold his balls in your lefthand and his cock in your right. Squeeze it gently down toward thebottom of the shaft and get ready to suck.

Two...

Run your tongue over your lips to get them good and wet and look intoyour man's face. He wants to watch you suck him off. Men love to watch.Now open your mouth just slightly to tease and excite your man and comevery close to his cock. Breathe on him, blow on him with your hot breath.Stick your tongue out again and reach for him, tease him.

Three...
Making sure your tongue is dripping wet, begin at the bottom of hisshaft and lick upwards, slowly. Turn your head sideways and pretendto take a bite of him, gently setting your teeth into his flesh. Wethim again with your tongue and use your hand to spread the liquidaround if necessary. A wet cock looks and sounds a lot sexier than adry one.

Four...

Your left had meanwhile is massaging those balls, perhaps scratchingthem lightly with your fingernails. You may also want to reach behindand underneath the balls to get to that ever-so-sensitive area justbefore the anus, or even to run your fingers over his asshole verylightly. Since the muscle that cause erection originates back there,this will produce a reaction in his cock. When you really know yourman, or even if you don't, place your index finger in your mouthgetting in very wet and work it into his asshole. If he voicesopposition just keep working. The pleasure will quickly take over andhe will thank you for it in the end.

Five...

Open your mouth and take him inside slowly keeping your tongue wet atall times. As you increase the speed of the action on his cock, makesure to acknowledge his moans of pleasure with words of encouragement.Ask him if he is enjoying you sucking his cock. Make him know you arethe one giving him this pleasure. Keep teasing don't go to fast andcause him to cum too soon.

Six...

When you start to hear quicker moans and his balls begin to tightenyou are bringing him close to orgasm. The decision to watch the cumshoot out into the air or to keep it all inside your mouth is yourown. He will be happy either way. When he does cum, keep suckinguntil he begs you to stop. His cock will soften and you will have achance to lick up any cum you missed or landed on his stomach. If youreally want to take you man to new areas, lick the cum off of his cockor his stomach and work your way up to his mouth. With a devilish lookin your eyes he will not refuse a deep kiss.

Seveen (he is VERY close to heaven)...

Most importantly remember to have fun and go slow.

Got this from a friend of mine, that says that the best she can do to her man is to give him a good blow job.. Benny agrees with me that this is one of the best things a woman can do for a man.. And it is really very simple (and fun) :-)

Judy

Oral sex, teach your man to do it right!

I know you all think the same, but you need to act not think. Get your man "down there", and teach him how to please you ;)

So ladies & gentlemen, please read this and go practise:

When a woman finds a man who gives good head, (cunnilingus) she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly. There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside and some have thick luscious lips

One side of her clitoris is normally more sensitive than the other. If she doesn't know which side - experiment. When a woman becomes aroused, the clitoris becomes engorged. The more engorged, the more it craves to be touched.


Be sure to wet your finger(s) before you touch her clit because it doesn't have its own juices and it's extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that hurts. Whenever you touch her pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.

Gently peeling apart the labia minora, her small lips, and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. With the tip of your wet finger slide it upward until you reach her little pink bud of flesh in the front. If you are in front of her, you can find it where all the whorls and folds of skin come together at the top of her vagina. The clitoris is about the size of the tip of your little finger. This is the most erotically sensitive spot in a woman's body. Its sole purpose is receiving pleasure.

Women love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it. Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her.

When she’s bucking up and straining to get more of you closer to her, put your lips right on top of her slit. Kiss her gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh.

Gently, spread her legs more with your hands. Tongue-fuck her. This feels divine. It also teases the hell out of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit. Quickly push your tongue in and out of her wet pussy, alternate between quick and slow thrusts. Don’t forget to run your tongue up the full length of her pussy lips just nipping at her clitoral bud. Never use your teeth.

See if her clit has become hard enough to peek out of its hood. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might still be waiting for you underneath. Bring your tongue up to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. If you can't feel the tiny bud, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it. Lick hard now and press into her skin. Gently pull her pussy lips away and flick your tongue quickly against her clit, hood covered or not. Her legs should shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your mouth. Start to suck gently and watch her face for her reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she’s into it, suck even harder.

Go with her. Move with her as she lifts her pelvis into the air with the tension of her rising orgasm. Don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit. Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too:"Don't stop. Don't ever stop!" There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon.

Judy

Quick and easy way to get your sex life on track again..

Judy got an e-mail from her friend Simone this week end, and we wanted to share it with you.. (Simone says it's okay by the way..)


At the beginning of most sexual relationships the sex part is so new and exciting, that not much talk is required. This seems reasonable, but it isn’t really sustainable. If you find yourself in a long term committed relationship, eventually something is going to happen sexually that you aren’t happy with. Maybe it’s not enough sex, or too much of one kind of sex, or you just want the sexual relationship to go in a different direction. All these things require you to start talking with your partner.

Because we don’t always talk about sex openly with our partners, thoughts and feelings can build up and knowing where to start, or what to say, can feel like too much. If the relationship is loving, and you feel mostly satisfied, you may decide just to ignore the sex part.

Pick one week where you and your partner commit to doing two things:

1) Don’t have sex that week.

Intimacy is okay, touching, hugging, kissing, but whatever kind of sex you regularly have, take a week off.

2) Everyday have a five minute conversation about sex. It doesn’t have to be heavy or deeply confessional, it doesn’t even have to be about you, but you commit to talking about sex for five minutes in private every day.

The idea is to put sex on the rotation in your regular conversations. We’re so used to talking about every other aspect of our relationships except the sex, and that, in part, is what makes talking about sex so difficult. If it becomes a daily topic of conversation eventually everyone has a better chance of speaking and being heard.

This worked for my boyfriend and I.. And now we are reading about Judy and Bennys tips and looking forward to our shipment ;)


- Simone -

Questions about squirting

Hey all,

We have not gotten many comments since we started, but e-mails have started to come in. One question that has come from several men and women; is how to squirt?

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights (Judy is like that some times :).

Then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you. Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.

Judy and I have figured out that for us (her), using sex toys and long foreplay helps the squirting. But she has yet to "shower" me with squirt...

Keep it up, and don't forgett to have fun!

Judy & Benny

Foreplay...

Foreplay may just very well be the most important part of a great sex life. Without foreplay many ideas & feelings would never come to the surface. For many women sex without foreplay can lead to a very unpleasant experience. Women, unlike men, usually require an extended period of stimulation through foreplay to achieve orgasm.We also feel foreplay is any couples best resource for learning about each others body, likes & dislikes. It is also a wonderful time to practice the communication skills you have learned from the other sections of this site & allows you both the time to try out many new ideas.

Sex is not all intercourse & those who believe it is are as far from the truth as they can be. To put it in a semi-poetic reference foreplay is the climb up the mountainside to the orgasmic peak. In other words you'll never get to the top if you don't climb. Time spent in Foreplay is like finding all the pieces to the puzzle, the keys to unlock the mystery that is your partner's sexual desire. Why would anyone ignore the best opportunity to take themselves and their partner to new sexual peaks?

Learning the Lesson of the Turtle & the Hare

Great foreplay can be related to the old fable of the turtle & the hare. Slow & steady wins the race! Foreplay done correctly can enhance both partners overall sexual experience & orgasm. Adding in the "little touches" during foreplay can not only show your lover your interest in them & their pleasure, but also build a deeper & more passionate sexual experience for both of you. This can be especially true for men who take the time to "tend" to the needs and desires of your partner shows them you care. A woman sees these efforts by men as a "commitment" to their pleasure (and the relationship), and find it an incredible turn on psychologically. Having "their man" take the time to make sure their needs are fulfilled means so much more than great sex to a woman, it means commitment.

Start slowly with kisses & caresses, exploring your lovers body head to toe. I have one personal rule that I always try to use during foreplay. Your mouth & both hands should be doing something at all times. While kissing, let one hand "wander south" while the other caresses their upper body.
With this approach you have the ability to give your lover many different sensations at one time. Instead of jumping straight to your lover's crotch, spend time on less frequently visited spots. Arms, legs, necks, ears, fingers, toes all should be explored in great length with your mouth. Ladies, take some time to read our Oral sex For Her Section & you guys should also read the Oral sex For Him Section. Both of these sections will steer you in the right direction concerning great oral sex. Not to be overlooked during foreplay is the caress. Using a combination of slight massage & light feather-like touches can drive anyone wild.

One that is almost always a crowd pleaser (not literally) is the feather-light fingernail scrape. Turning your hand over & very, very lightly trace patterns or circles on your lovers body with your fingertips or nails. It's guaranteed to send shivers up & down their body. The key here is to build up the passion slowly at first & then more aggressive as you both shoot for the stars. Try to follow your lovers signals & make sure you give them as much foreplay as they can take. For you guys who feel you just don't last long enough during intercourse this is a wonderful technique. By spending time arousing your lover & possibly bringing her to orgasm through masturbation or oral sex, you have enhanced the entire experience for her.

I personally prefer to bring my lover to several orgasms before intercourse. Following this plan will show your lover that their pleasure is number one with you, & you will never regret it.

Variety IS the Spice of Life (& Sex)

Throughout your exploring of foreplay make sure you try different things & ideas. Toys are a wonderful tool to raise your foreplay to a new level. You should also try to use Massage as a new idea for foreplay. Changing ideas from time to time can really rev things up in bed & will undoubtedly lead you to new pleasures, some that you may have never experienced before. If you show your lover that you are committed to their pleasure & are willing to try new things to please them you will reap the rewards ten fold & bring both of you closer together. Never put your pleasure before your lovers. Try to work to the point where your goal is to send them to new heights every time you have sex. It's a winning idea.........for both of you!

Judy

Got an e-mail from a friend..

I checked my e-mail today, and it was a lot of spam as usual but I also got a very interesting mail from a friend of mine. She is not the kind that really tell me much about her "life between the sheets" so to speak, but I told her about our blog, and she sent me an e-mail with her "magic friend". She said that this sex toy was just fantastic! I read some of the reviews on Amazon, and I must agree; it seems to be a very, very good sex toy!

With or without the "attachments", this is a superior product, both for sore muscles and for use as a sex toy. This would appear to be the top of the class when it comes to personal vibrator technology. OK, it's not for use as a small / portable unit, but when you've got a place to plug in, it's AMAZING.

NOTE - keep in mind that adapters for your car, RV, boat or other vehicle cigarette lighter socket can make a normal 110V outlet available to you ANYWHERE ... so you can bring this wonderful device with you just about anywhere.

Hmm.. I will order this soon, and tell you all what I (we) think about it.. Here is the link:

King Kong Dildo

Woooow! Okay, I found the biggest dildo I have ever seen:

Has anyone tried this? I know I have given birth to two baby girls, but this seems crazy! I have still not decided if I will buy it yet, so please, if you have any experience with toys of this magnitude, please send us a comment.

If someone wants to try this out PLEASE send me a review... Click on the image to review it in our store :-)

Judy

Vibrating Cock Ring

This is my newest toy. Oh man! My wife has newer squirted so much when I put this one and rode her pussy like crazy. She loves it, and so do I. This fantastic Coc Ring from Adam And Eve Sex toys is just amazing! Easy to wash after you have used it, and actually, the last time I stood there washing it I got so horny that I had to put it on and give my wife another round! She was in, and we had sex one more time that night ;)

Make you feel like you have a super cock!

You know how soldiers put on thir armor and become invincible? That is how it feels when you lube up your dick, and slide into this cock ring! It is silicon based, and feels great on your dick.

The adjustable vibrator feels good on your balls, and stimulates your partner’s ass. Slip into this fantastic sex toy, and you will never want to have sex without it again (well it is nice to go all "natural" also, but trust me; you are going to love this one). I got it from Adam and Eve Sex toys, just fantastic!