Quick and easy way to get your sex life on track again..

Judy got an e-mail from her friend Simone this week end, and we wanted to share it with you.. (Simone says it's okay by the way..)


At the beginning of most sexual relationships the sex part is so new and exciting, that not much talk is required. This seems reasonable, but it isn’t really sustainable. If you find yourself in a long term committed relationship, eventually something is going to happen sexually that you aren’t happy with. Maybe it’s not enough sex, or too much of one kind of sex, or you just want the sexual relationship to go in a different direction. All these things require you to start talking with your partner.

Because we don’t always talk about sex openly with our partners, thoughts and feelings can build up and knowing where to start, or what to say, can feel like too much. If the relationship is loving, and you feel mostly satisfied, you may decide just to ignore the sex part.

Pick one week where you and your partner commit to doing two things:

1) Don’t have sex that week.

Intimacy is okay, touching, hugging, kissing, but whatever kind of sex you regularly have, take a week off.

2) Everyday have a five minute conversation about sex. It doesn’t have to be heavy or deeply confessional, it doesn’t even have to be about you, but you commit to talking about sex for five minutes in private every day.

The idea is to put sex on the rotation in your regular conversations. We’re so used to talking about every other aspect of our relationships except the sex, and that, in part, is what makes talking about sex so difficult. If it becomes a daily topic of conversation eventually everyone has a better chance of speaking and being heard.

This worked for my boyfriend and I.. And now we are reading about Judy and Bennys tips and looking forward to our shipment ;)


- Simone -

Questions about squirting

Hey all,

We have not gotten many comments since we started, but e-mails have started to come in. One question that has come from several men and women; is how to squirt?

Some women don't know how to orgasm, while others need little more than a whisper in order to reach orgasmic heights (Judy is like that some times :).

Then there are the others -- those women who have the capability to squirt their juices all over the bed, the floor, or even you. Although we'd like to believe that every woman is capable of reaching such heights of sexual ecstasy, unfortunately, there are many women out there who disagree. And if they're not willing to open their minds to the idea of ejaculating, then that's their prerogative.

Nevertheless, if you've got yourself a woman who is very sexually in tune with herself, and would be willing to let you manipulate her vagina until she ejaculated all over you, then today's tip is going to leave you soaking wet.

Judy and I have figured out that for us (her), using sex toys and long foreplay helps the squirting. But she has yet to "shower" me with squirt...

Keep it up, and don't forgett to have fun!

Judy & Benny